Sometimes, you can be quite happily pootling around the web (in this case FaceBook) when a thought is promoted. This was one of those days. It all began innocently enough in one of my favourite groups, Gammon’s Greatest Hits. A man posts what can really only be described as a piece of garbage. Directing the… Read More The Rise of the Female Incel?
I am currently taking a very well earned break from Narcsite.com. I have given a lot of my time over there attempting to help others, being helped myself, also having a laugh, many a giggle and most importantly continuing my education into Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). I must say, I have really moved from examining… Read More OK Creeper!
Now, I don’t know whether it’s CV-19 or if there is generally something in the air at the moment but maybe you lovely people can help me work this oneout? In the last couple of months I have had two really quite strange incidents involving photographs. To be more precise, pornographic photographs. To be even… Read More Say Cheese!
I’ve been thinking recently about me. Yes, very egotistical I know. I have had another baby. Red Rose Publications Ltd. It was a trying time. However, it is done and now matters can commence. In line with this and in keeping with my own sense of legacy, the blog will now turn to matters more… Read More Who is Ren?
With ‘The Virus’ running rampant and even affecting our dear and much beloved Prime Mister, I was getting a tad concerned for Jack. I should not have been concerned. We did have a brief bit of chit-chat about the state of the Rum, and whether I would receive ‘The Bum’ I desperately craved. Fortunately I… Read More Captain Jack says ‘Hi! And the Rum is holding up…Saavy?’
Somewhere off the Caribbean, Sir Captain Jack has been there for us all on Dear Old Blighty. I have been informed that he is OK and wants very much to share his message of goodwill to us all at these disparate times. God bless him and let’s hope ‘The Black Pearl’ will sail, once again.… Read More The Alternative Queen’s Speech by Captain Jack Sparrow
The Boundary Condition. We all have them. Whether on the personal level it is concerned by which behaviours we find appropriate or inappropriate. We have boundaries over ourselves, our properties and possessions and of course children in our charge within due appropriate means. There are boundary conditions in society itself. The Rule of Law which… Read More The Boundary Condition AKA Boxing Helena
So I’ve been playing a game over the last 24 hours. Two actually. One is the game of ‘Patience’ and the other is my old favourite, the Tarot. Two decks of cards. One, has 52 cards, the other, 78. Playing cards are very funny things indeed. How did they evolve? And why? Is it just… Read More On Patience
St Valentine’s Day approaches. Cards are in the shops. Bunches of cheap flowers at the garage awaiting some random sod that will purchase them, on the fly because…yet again, THEY have forgotten Valentine’s Day. Valentine’s Day is a difficult day for me. This is because next to your birthday and of course Christmas, it is… Read More The St Valentine’s Day Massacre
Dear Parishioners It’s that time of year again why I try to extort from you, I mean ask for money from My Loyal Flock. I shouldn’t have to say this but I will. If you like what I have written below then please do contribute to a charity. Mine are; The Angel Assistance Program which… Read More The Christmas Newsletter from St Renarde the Great
Ha! Who am I kidding? Course he was a narc! The following article is based on the teachings and words of HG Tudor (I am assured that there is no relation!). You may find this writing here on The Greaters to be helpful. A great deal of words has been written on Henry VIII. I… Read More Henry VIII – Narcissist or just Misunderstood?
What is it? When will it happen? Who will be involved? Stay tuned.
But in the meantime we had WW1 and WW2. Its been often been said that the seeds of WW2 were sown after the outrageous act upon humankind which was The Treaty of Versailles. The Allies essentially butfucked the Axis. In every conceivable way possible. This was ‘Reparations’. What The Alliies did was to sew the… Read More The Purple Revolution
The second revolution was a combination of the Enlightenment (1715 to 1789) and the Industrial Revolution (1760 to between 1820/40). There were a few interesting and significant events happening which I perceive began to drive each other. There is not enough space here to fully delineate them but certainly, the invention of the beam engine,… Read More The Blue Revolution
The good old Daily Fail does bring up some choice articles from time to time. This writingcrossed my feed today. The subject of this piece is a woman named as ‘Spiritual healer Mel Collins’ has spilled the vertible beans on these very sensitive people. But what do we we mean by that? According to Collins,… Read More Ren Towers #2: The highly ‘sensitive’ person
For while now I’ve been wondering if there isn’t something wrong with the world. Or rather how humans’ perceive the world. It all began so innocently enough (although how I started thinking about this is a tale for another time). Pondering on the colour, yellow. My physics background tells me that there are three primary… Read More The Perception Deception
I’m calling for our next Revolution. Or more accurately, I’m calling out to society to recognise the massive spiritual revolution which began in the 1960’s. However, before we get to what I am terming, the Purple Revolution,, we have delineate two of the other revolutions. Like many trends in biological systems, they do not follow… Read More The Red Revolution
Tragic story in today’s Mail [Edit: It was my intention to post the ORIGINAL article here from The Daily Mail which highlights the facts but fails to grasp a significant issue with respect to bias in the Inquest. Essentially, that the first iteration of the article makes a passing nod to the fact that there… Read More Justice Served?
Or Tales of the Pick Up Artist. Sometimes in life, you find yourself with a ring-side seat on some quite seemingly strange and baffling human behaviour. Not long ago, I got onto a local train. Another woman joined me. She was carrying an art folio, was young and pretty. She was also utterly distracted by… Read More Girl on a Train
Yesterday, the writer HG Tudor published a piece outlining his views on a work of BBC journalist, Myles Bonnar, It concerns an horrifying movement called ‘The Game’. Essentially, it is a trend where men gather on the web to exchange what they might loosely call ‘dating tips’ but which any fool can see are distributing… Read More ‘The Game.’
So, I ‘frequent’ a pagan group. I am pagan. Ever have been since 14 when I figured out that the one with the pointy hat who lofts around Canterbury, did not really like women. He didn’t really appear to like anyone but that’s entirely beside the point. I’ve been noticing for say maybe, the past… Read More The Crystal Caper
Heard two really important things on the radio today to my mind.. 1 – Rape convictions have gone down despite the fact that reports of rape to the police are rising. (Currently only 1 in 58 rapes are being kicked upstairs to the CPS). This hasn’t surprised me. Guessing some report was issued today. 2… Read More The Mark of a Civilised Society?
I love Piccadilly. The Lights! The Statue! Overpriced entertainment! A stones throw away from Shaftstbury Avenue and Theatreland and a little hop skip and a jump, you’re in Soho, bro! Broadly, this is how I view the world at the moment. A seemingly bright and happy place…but really, it isn’t. Far from it. Scratch the… Read More All change please for the Piccadilly Line!
Edited: 24/1/2018 Reason for edit is to afford proper attribution to the work of H. G. Tudor. Please note that the contents and the ideas expressed within this writing are flawed. I have chosen to leave the article extant as it demonstrates how easy it is to get something completely wrong but then realise how… Read More Some thoughts on Narcissism and IQ.
Bel Mooney has for some time been a ‘regular’ at Ren Towers. Her column in the Daily Mail/Mail on Sunday has been both a joy and an utter revelation. Principally for how many times this person decides to dole out often incorrect and erroneous advice at best and at worst, downright dangerous words. Nor more… Read More Ren Towers #1: Bel Mooney
130 years ago marks a significant anniversary of a a series of murders were committed in the East End of London. The press called this ‘The Autumn of Terror’. The author of those murders; ‘Jack the Ripper’. The most notorious crimes possibly ever to been committed which still remain unsolved to this very day. Many… Read More Unsolved Crimes: Who was Jack the Ripper?
An eventful year I had thought 2017 was bad. Oh no, 2018 has probably proved itself to be the most pivotal one so far. It hasn’t been all bad, far from it. In some cases, I have experienced things which I never thought I would. I’ve had people around me, people who care and love… Read More The Curious Tale of Albert and the Dragon
So, a close friend sent me a link to this article here. It details how absolutely God-Spankingly BRILLIANT!!! are Empaths and ‘Why we should not be messed with. EVER!’ Well frankly, I concur. We are. But not for the reasons the author, Elizabeth Williams is espousing. A lot of the article referenced makes me wonder… Read More Ten Empathic Superpowers and why they are (almost) all wrong.
So, no one likes to make mistakes, right? We all cringe when the flaw in our thinking are pointed out or that we have acted in a certain way. All that can be done in such circumstances is to take a deep breath and to apologise. And mean it. Back in the summer of 2018… Read More On getting it wrong. Very, very wrong indeed…
So, I’m writing a book. This one is about how Empaths cope in the aftermath of the utter wreckage a narc can impose on one’s life. It’s called Fear, Fuel and Fury. There are very sound reasons I chose that title. 𝐅𝐞𝐚𝐫 – The threat as opposed to the action is often far more important… Read More Under Poison Wood (Apologies to Dylan Thomas)
Part of a series of Dark Erotica set in the times of the Old North… The sun began to set on the hut in the woods bathing the pine in a soft, golden glow that at times appeared to be almost reddish. The woman sighed with relief. Too often she believed that she would never… Read More Loki’s Tale
I find it somewhat ironic that the first post on my sex positive blog is about my favourite TV Show of all time and not about nipple clamps. As my partner, Loki would say, ‘It is what it is’. Unless you have been living under a rock these past few weeks, you will know 1… Read More GoT: It Had to be You
Back in the late summer of 2017, I was the original driving force behind London SubSisters. A regular monthly event for kinky, submissive women which is held in a secret location in London. Due to personal circumstances, I had to mothball the munch. Now that matters are settling down, I started to rethink the event.… Read More What’s it like to be a London Sub Sister?
2018 has been a strange and turbulent year ; 2019 is not showing any signs of being any different. Go me. It’s been a time of me for deep, personal growth and some fundamental shifting on my own views on Kink. No; don’t worry! Still a big endorser of a bit of the ol’ slap… Read More So long and thanks for all the fish! Urm… not quite!
Or the post-weaponised Empaths’ eternal struggle. A bit of background before I expand. The author, H G Tudor (a diagnosed malignant ‘Master’ Narcissist) asserts that all narcissists (Ns) have a fuel matrix. (For fuel read Narcissistic Supply). The size of this matrix depends on the school involved and these are the Lessers, Middles and the… Read More Stalemate
Trigger Warning. Explicit sexual content and consensual rape fantasy. People do ask, what is sex like with a N type? Well; it’s a mixed bag. Some N’s are totally fucking rubbish in the sack; others are veritable Gods. In H G Tudors’ book, Sex and the Narcissist, he talks about how the N feels as… Read More Let’s talk about Sex baby!
Once Upon A Time…There was a Magical Washing Machine. Sure, the Machine looked good. She WAS good. She washed Her Owners’ clothes extremely efficiently. He would open up her door and say, “My my, we have a good girl here? Look at My Clothes! All cleaned and washed. So quickly too! So little energy expended!… Read More The Magical Washing Machine.
So I’m seeing this guy. It’s a ‘normal’ relationship (struggling to define it. It was meant to be a FWB but it’s not really that anymore) it’s not a kink one. I have known him for getting on for a year now, on and very much off. However, now I believe; it’s off. The reason?… Read More The Silent Treatment
Of course the obverse to The Silent Treatment (TST) is the Talk to Me NOW!(TTMK). I was a bit undecided at first if this is a Power Play, a hoover or a behaviour. I am actually pretty much settled on the fact that this is a hoover with a dash of behaviour thrown in. TTMK is a consequence… Read More Talk To Me Now!
No one would have believed in the last years of the nineteenth century that this world was being watched keenly and closely by intelligences greater than man’s and yet as mortal as his own; that as men busied themselves about their various concerns they were scrutinised and studied, perhaps almost as narrowly as a man… Read More War of the Worlds
I keep seeing (and hearing) the word ‘fractionation’. It has seemingly come from nowhere and now abounds Fet regularly. I didn’t know what it was at first until some kind soul elucidated it to me. Ah, I thought; I know what that is. It’s a combination of the seduction, silent treatment, talk to me now, respite, benevolent and… Read More Hoovering by Gaslight
Haven’t seen much on this recently and as it’s a super important power play, I thought I’d share a recent example. Triangulation is when two people are communicating (in any sphere) and the following occurs; A real person is brought into the conversation An imaginary person is brought into the conversation An object (yes really)… Read More Triangulation and My Family.
Of course the obverse to The Silent Treatment (TST) is the Talk to Me NOW!(TTMK). I was a bit undecided at first if this is a Power Play, a hoover or a behaviour. I am actually pretty much settled on the fact that this is a hoover with a dash of behaviour thrown in. TTMK is a consequence… Read More Talk to Me Now!
I keep seeing (and hearing) the word ‘fractionation’. It has seemingly come from nowhere and now abounds Fet regularly. I didn’t know what it was at first until some kind soul elucidated it to me. Ah, I thought; I know what that is. It’s a combination of the seduction, silent treatment, talk to me now, respite, benevolent and… Read More Hoovering by Gaslight
Once upon a time, in a land far away across the sea, there lived a white knight. The white knight was brave. She was bold. She had a big horse named Dave. But very sadly she was wounded. The knight had fought an almighty battle many years ago, you see. A very sharp lance had… Read More The Parable of the White Knight
RANT/ ON Heaven know by the time Christmas 2016 I could have done with a present from Santa Claus. I had well and truly earnt it by then. You see I found something. Quite by chance but I found something utterly amazing. I found an entire new word. Not an ante-dating or a different usage.… Read More Those BASTARDS at the OED
I swore a vow recently to protect someone. That I will honour and keep in all aspects except this one. Because it directly affects me and my journey. I’ve always wondered why I have an ‘older guy’ thing going on. I’ve always been into older men but in the last three years I have had… Read More Her name was Angel.
This is so worth a read. I was incredibly fortunate enough to experience this recently. It couldn’t work alas and am licking my wounds. I needed to read this today to remind me of what true passion is. I hope I find it again. Source: “I’ll Pleasure You” – (NSFW) VenusandEros on Worshipping Her With… Read More “I’ll Pleasure You” – (NSFW) VenusandEros on Worshipping Her With His Tongue.
I feel the need to express myself. Constantly. I know why I do this and the reasons are buried deep in the annals of my childhood and early adolescence. That’s my issue. But let me explain. When I lost approximately seven stone of weight a few years ago, well frankly I blossomed. What losing weight… Read More I like my pictures. You like my pictures. We are in a paradox.
Huh Ren? You lost ya mind there? FL is crammed with women expressing themsleves sexually. Oh yes; that is very true. One cannot argue with that. But at what cost? I would like to draw every females’ attention to the hidden FetLife clause in its TOU which explicitly states; “By agreeing to these TOU you… Read More Welcome to Fetlife! Women, please understand you have just lost your freedom to sexually express yourself!
