It may seem like I’ve got a bit of a downer on the ‘nillas at the moment. I haven’t but as I’ve said in my previous writings, I came to a conclusion about them this week. Anyway, I thought I’d share some of the amusing conversations I have had. I often find that there is a… Read More Why showing a vanilla your Fetlife profile is not always a good idea…
Originally first posted to Fetlife. Here are some of my musings on the newly submissive. 1 – Submission is not a gift. 2 – But the dominant must treat it as if it was as priceless as rubies. 3 – Submission happens by degree. The wise sub will learn her limits to prevent emotional abuse,… Read More Top ten recommendations for new subs.
It had been an age; a lifetime since I had done this before. My mind went back to that day. The woman’s voice echoed down the years. “If you can’t lose weight for that day, frankly you never will”. She spat the words out over the telephone. I could almost see her upper lip curling… Read More You are enough.
Recently I was reminded of something that happened to me a little over a year ago. At the heart of any D/s relationship must be a core of absolute trust. This of course must go both ways but I’d like to focus on the trust that the submissive places in the Dominant. That as part… Read More The Dark-side of Power Exchange; Vulnerability & Sub-drop